Mama ostala "ponižena i posramljena" nakon komentara nepoznate žene o frizuri njene kćeri

Mama ostala "ponižena i posramljena" nakon komentara nepoznate žene o frizuri njene kćeri
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NITKO ne voli dobivati savjete koje nije tražio, osobito ako dolaze od nametljivih neznanaca. 

Mama blogerica Maya Vorderstrasse, koju na Instagramu prati više od 120 tisuća ljudi, požalila se da je ostala "ponižena i posramljena" nakon komentara koji je nepoznata žena imala na frizuru njene kćeri. 

Kad je jednu od svojih kćerkica povela doktoru, jedna žena u čekaonici joj je prišla i rekla joj: 

"Ne bi trebala vezati kosu svoje kćeri u rep. Kad skineš gumicu, to će joj iščupati kosu koja više nikad neće narasti i onda će biti ćelava."

 

THE NERVE of some people: I went to the pediatrician with Hazel and this woman sitting across from me in the waiting room got up, walked over to me and snarkly said: “You shouldn’t put your daughter’s hair up in a ponytail. When you take it down, it will rip her hair out, it will never grow back and she will be bald.” (WHAT?!) Just like that she got up and left, leaving me embarrassed in front of strangers and feeling horrible about myself. I felt the need to explain myself, and that they all needed to know that I use a certain type of rubber band, and I don’t make it tight and that I’m so careful but GUESS WHAT? I don’t owe her ANYTHING. Her erroneous judgement will not guilt me into thinking that I am a bad mother. She doesn’t know me. There is a difference between caring for the safety of a child when they are in actual danger, and to shame and humiliate a mother because you think you know better than her. Don’t spread hate. Be supportive. Be nice. Be positive and encouraging. That’s what we need as a community of women working so hard to raise decent human beings. As this platform allows me to reach people, I will ALWAYS use my voice, and trust me... I can be loud! #momsagainstmomshaming #HearMyWomanlyRoar #LookAtUsRockingOurPonytails #DoILookLikeAriannaGrandeYet

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U svojoj objavi Maya se požalila da je odmah osjetila potrebu opravdati se jer se zbog njenog komentara osjećala užasno. 

"Ipak nisam željela dopustiti da me njena osuda navede da pomislim da sam loša majka. Ona me ne poznaje. Postoji razlika između toga da poželiš zaštititi dijete od stvarne opasnosti i toga da posramiš i poniziš majku jer misliš da si pametniji od nje", zaključila je Maya. 

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