"Napao me u mraku": Žene ispričale što im tipovi rade svakodnevno i odvratno je
IAKO SE u posljednje vrijeme, pogotovo zahvaljujući #metoo pokretu, sve više počelo pričati o neugodnostima, zlostavljanju i napadima koje mnoge žene doživljavaju na svakodnevnoj bazi, o toj se temi i dalje ne priča dovoljno.
Na Twitteru je zato jedna korisnica odlučila pozvati sve žene koje su nešto takvo doživjele da se jave i ispričaju svoju priču kako bi pokazala da se to događa češće nego što se misli.
Ladies, raise your hand if you've ever been groped, catcalled, sexually assaulted. I wanna show you how common this is— Kenidra4Humanity (@KenidraRWoods_) August 13, 2019
I've experienced all of the above and it makes you feel like an object rather than a human being. Every day, I hope that more and more women won't have to put up with this bullshit from entitled men.— Kenidra4Humanity (@KenidraRWoods_) August 13, 2019
Many women have messaged me saying they were raped by their husbands and they also mentioned that people wouldn't believe them since they are married. Just because a man is married to a woman doesn't give him the right to force sex on her when he wants. I believe u & I see you.— Kenidra4Humanity (@KenidraRWoods_) August 14, 2019
Iskustva i priče tviterašica otvorit će vam oči kao ništa dosad...
"Silovana sam i pretučena pod prijetnjom nožem. Dirali su me bez dozvole. Silovana sam tijekom spoja. Tukao me partner, više od jednom. Seksualno me maltretirao kolega..."
Brutally raped at knife point and beaten.— Janice #JaniceForAlaska #HD25 #SaveOurState (@alaskawater) August 13, 2019
Beaten by domestic partner, more than one.
Sexually harassed at the workplace by a man who stood with his crotch in my face while I was working at my desk.
"Puno puta mi se to dogodilo. Jednom sam zamolila zaštitara da me otprati do parkirališta jer je bilo skoro 3 ujutro. Napao me kad smo došli do jednog mračnog mjesta. Srećom sam uspjela pobjeći kad je naišlo drugo vozilo."
Yup, many times. The one time I was actually truly scared was one night at work I asked a security guard to walk me to the parking lot because it was close to 3am. He attacked me when we came to a dark spot. Thankfully I was able to get away when a vehicle startled him.— Susie mcbride (@Ewokgrl) August 13, 2019
"Do 20. godine sam već odlučila da nikad neću biti sama s nekim muškarcem za kojeg već nisam odlučila da želim seks s njim jer oni to doživljavaju kao pristanak."
By age 20 I had decided to never be alone with any man unless I had already decided to have sex with him because they regarded it as consent and simply would not hear the word No.— Elizabeth Chamberlin (@Elizabe04337896) August 13, 2019
"Kolega na poslu me uznemiravao svakodnevno, ali nisam ništa govorila jer me barem nije silovao."
Exactly. My co-worker sexually harassing me was pretty damned traumatic but I didn't say anything because at least he didn't rape me. (A guy co-worker friend ended up reporting him when I wouldn't.)— Vortex33 (@vortex33) August 13, 2019
"Silovana sam kad sam imala 16. Moja prijateljica je tog vikenda bila na drugom mjestu i također je silovana. Uvijek sam mislila da je njeno gore jer je povrijeđena, a ja sam samo dopustila da se to dogodi. Mislila sam da je to moja krivica. Samo mi je zaprijetio da će povrijediti moju prijateljicu ako to ne napravim, nije koristio fizičku prisilu..."
All the time. I was raped when I was 16. My best friend at the time was somewhere else that weekend and ALSO was raped. I kept thinking hers was worse because she got hurt, whereas I just ended up “letting it happen.” I felt like it was my own fault. That it wasn’t REAL rape. 1/2— Mrs. Awesome (@petcrocodile76) August 13, 2019
Because he didn’t use physical force. He just threatened that if I don’t do what he wants, another friend in the same house would get hurt. I STILL feel like mine wasn’t really so bad and that it’s been my own fault. I never reported it. Thankfully, the guy died a year later. 2/2— Mrs. Awesome (@petcrocodile76) August 13, 2019
"Moj suprug se smije što se zaključavam dok ga čekam u automobilu ili što pazim dok danju hodam prema autu ili što uvijek pazim da su mi ključevi u rukama prije nego što dođem do zgrade. Oni nemaju pojma."
My husband honestly thinks it’s funny I lock the doors to the car when I wait for him, or that I am alert during the day when I walk to my car, or that I make sure my keys are at their ready before I leave anywhere. They have no fucking idea— Cj (@cthejensen) August 14, 2019
"Mislila sam da će prestati kad sam ostala trudna. No, naučila sam da ima pervertita koji se pale na trudnice."
I thought that being pregnant would give me my first reprieve since pre-adolescence. But recently learned there’s a subset of creeps who are infatuated with pregnant women 🤦♀️— Jax ⚡️ (@Diamond_Jax) August 13, 2019
"I mene je to iznenadilo. Kad sam rekla tipu da sam trudna i da me ostavi na miru, rekao je: 'Nema veze, svejedno si dobra.'"
I was very surprised about this tbh. After telling a guy to leave me alone and that I was pregnant, he said “that don’t matter, you still good” 😂 I am VISIBLY pregnant now how is this still a thing 🙉🙉🙉— itzel 🥨 (@_tinypretzel) August 13, 2019
"Ja imam skoro 60 godina i nekidan mi je tip s motora dobacivao seksualne komentare. To mi se događa od 10. godine, u 50 godina se dogodilo stotine puta. Još mi mnogo toga moramo naučiti."
I'm almost 60 and had some guy on a motorcycle make sexually lewd comments 2 days ago.— Woman In The Moon (@SassyKadiK) August 13, 2019
Been happening since I was 10, hundreds & hundreds of times in 50 years ranging from remarks to assault. I've been married 38 of those years.
We still have a long way to go.
"S 13 godina smo prolazile kraj kombija u kojem je tip masturbirao dok nas je gledao. Ni ja ni prijateljica to dugo nismo htjele reći roditeljima jer smo se bojale da ćemo upasti u nevolju. Nitko me nikad nije pitao zašto sam se bojala da ću JA upasti u nevolju, ali svi su bili razočarani MOJIM ponašanjem."
At 13, a friend & I walked by a “rape van” with the sliding door open & a hairy naked man jerking it in full view. Neither of us told our parents for hours for fear WE would get in trouble. No one ever asked me why I thought I’d be in trouble, but everyone was disappointed in ME.— Women’s Rights are People’s Rights (@think_teach1) August 13, 2019
"Prvi put mi se dogodilo sa 7 godina, a mama mi je rekla da me vjerojatno samo škakljao. Nakon toga nikom nisam govorila o takvim stvarima do 30. godine. I još mnogo toga nisam ispričala."
First time I was 7. I told my mom like I was taught and she said "He was probably just tickling you". Never told anyone else about that or the other times until I was in my 30s. I still haven't talked about a lot of things.— Samhain Jack (@SDReyley) August 13, 2019
"Tip me uhvatio za dojku dok sam bila s djecom u trgovini. Nekoliko puta mjesečno doživim neugodne poglede ili dobacivanja. Sad kad imam skoro 40 godina, malo se smanjilo."
I’ve had a man grab my boob at Lowe’s, when I’m with my kids, in the past six months. I get unwelcome stares or low key catcalls a few times a month. It’s tapered off a ton now that I’m nearing 40— Erin wants to be sleeping (@Rightturn_only) August 13, 2019