Samo nekoliko minuta nakon silovanja, na Instagramu detaljno opisala što joj se dogodilo

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  • 27-godišnja Njujorčanka objavila je selfie na kojem plače ispod tuša, a potom i fotografiju s pregleda kod ginekologa, na koji je išla nakon što je prvi put silovana u studenom prošle godine
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AKTIVISTICA Amber Amour, koja tvrdi da je silovana ispod tuša u Južnoafričkoj Republici, na Instagramu je opisala taj mučni događaj.

Ova 27-godišnja Njujorčanka objavila je selfie na kojem plače ispod tuša, a potom i fotografiju s pregleda kod ginekologa, na koji je išla nakon što je prvi put silovana u studenom prošle godine.

 

My view of the rape kit. Thank you all for being so loving & supportive during this time. Your messages pushed me to take action and to stand up for myself and for all rape survivors. For those who wish to BLAME ME or any other survivor out there, I want you to know that you are the very reason that I am so brutally honest. I could have hidden details. I could have kept some info to myself, but NO. You need to know the truth and to see the reality of the situation. No matter what a person does, it is not an invitation for rape. It doesn't matter if I kissed him. It doesn't matter if he was drunk. It doesn't matter if I said yes to a shower. I never said he could get violent with me. I never said he could make me bleed. I never said he could rape me. But still, that's how the scene went down. I don't need to explain myself but if you're wondering WHY I took a shower with him, it was written in the text, I'd been sick with food poisoning for 2 days and needed to sweat it out. My current place of residence has only cold water (third world problems are real!) and it seemed like a miracle to be offered a hot shower. That's not what he was there for though, because as soon as he got a chance, he threw me to the ground and had his way. Dealing with rape is hard enough but the aftermath is often even more traumatic but I did this for you and I did this for me. The US Embassy and the South African police are super supportive and he may be arrested as soon as this week. Thank you for the love. And for the victim blamers, I send love, peace, and enlightenment to you so that you may be a beacon of light for us, too. #StopRapeEducate #AmberAmour #AmberTheActivist #SouthAfrica #humanitarian #healing #education #africa #survivor #sexualassault #recovery #victimblaming #overcome #rapeculture #staystrong

Fotografiju objavljuje Amber Amour (@ambertheactivist)

Amber je silovana tijekom provođenja edukacijske kampanje "Stop silovanju" u Cape Townu.

Opisala je da je nakon što je dva dana bila bolesna otišla do hostela u kojem je ranije bila kako bi ostavila poruku svom prijatelju Nicku. Tamo je bio drugi muškarac, Shakir, koji je želio biti s njom. Jednom ga je poljubila, no on je bio pijan pa mu je rekla da nije pravi trenutak. Kad je krenula na kat pozdraviti svog prijatelja Clydea iz Amerike, Shakir ju je pratio i pozvao da mu se pridruži pod tušem.

Amour tvrdi da je pristala na zajedničko tuširanje baš zato što je dva dana bila bolesna i sve što je željela bio je topli tuš, no kad je ušla on ju je prisilio da klekne.

 

It was only a few minutes ago but sometimes these things happen so fast it's hard to remember all the details.... I've been sick for the past 2 days and today was my first day out. I went back to my old hostel to leave a note for a friend, Nick. There was another guy there, Shakir, who was desperately trying to get with me. I kissed him once but he seemed drunk so I told him it was bad timing, I had already met someone. Before heading out, I went upstairs to say hi to one more friend, Clyde from the states. Shakir followed me upstairs and said he was going to take a shower. He invited me to join. I said yes because the water at my current hostel is pretty cold and after 2 days of being sick, I just really wanted a hot shower. As soon as I got in the bathroom, he forced me to my knees. I said "stop!" but he just got more violent. He lifted me up and put his penis in my vagina. I asked him to stop, again, as I began to cry. When he shoved it in my ass, that's when I passed out. I woke up a few minutes later and saw him trying to creep out the door. When he saw that I was awake, he came back to finish me off in the shower. I have all those fucked up feelings that we get after rape...shame, disgust, suffering. I'm here, alone, and any DNA has been wiped away in the shower. The South African police will just roll their eyes when I walk in. Feeling sicker than ever now. Needless today, I'm going to disappear for a bit. Just need to enjoy the freaking sun and call my friends and family in the states. Love you guys. Thank you for always being there for me. All the more reason to continue @stoprapeeducate but not today. Today, I need rest. #StopRapeEducate

Fotografiju objavljuje Amber Amour (@ambertheactivist)

"Rekla sam mu da prestane, no on je postao nasilniji. Još sam mu jednom rekla da prestane, a onda sam počela plakati", napisala je.

Tvrdi da ju je on silovao, a ona se onesvijestila. Nakon nekoliko je minuta došla k svijesti, a kad je on to primijetio, vratio se i nastavio je silovati.

Prvi je put započela s kampanjom nakon što je silovana u New Yorku 2014. godine, a za Marie Claire je rekla da je o svemu progovorila kako bi pružila podršku drugim žrtvama silovanja.

 

I posted this picture in September 2015, before getting raped on the #StopRapeEducate World Tour. I thought this message was worthy of a repost in the name of @creatingconsentculture ⭐ As much as I want to feel strong and happy about the new year, I've been feeling a little sick and triggered since I came back to Cape Town on January 1st to help with the police investigation. I think I'll feel better when I leave for Namibia this Thursday... 🌺 I'd like to remind everyone that every survivor has their own way of coping. I feel different everyday. Just because I focus on healing doesn't mean I'm not sad. That's precisely WHY I am working on feeling better. I only say this because it's time we stop painting pictures of what trauma survivors look like. Let's accept everyone and their own unique healing methods. As long as it's helpful, that's all that matters! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 #supportsurvivors #heforshe #girlpower #yesallwomen #humanrights #feminism #feminist #peace #peaceandlove #allmencan #makeadifference #bethechange #amberamour #ambertheactivist #bodypositive #lgbt #lgbtq #queer #hippiechick #namaste #effyourbeautystandards #peaceonearth #notaskingforit #peace #love #CreatingConsentCulture #consentculture #HealingWithAmber

Fotografiju objavljuje Amber Amour (@ambertheactivist)

"Odmah sam znala da to ne mogu tajiti, ja sam ta koja nagovara druge žrtve da progovore... Znala sam da moram napraviti ono o čemu stalno govorim pa sam se fotografirala i objavila što mi se dogodilo. Bilo je to intuitivno. Još sam uvijek u kupaonici, na mjestu zločina. Mislim da se nisam ni ustala, samo sam tipkala. Htjela sam prenijeti poruku da bez obzira na to što netko učini, ne zaslužuje silovanje. Bilo je detalja koje sam mogla izostaviti, no znala sam da moram ispričati cijelu priču ako želim kreirati kulturu svijesti", napisala je.

Ubrzo je otkrila da je njen napadač uhićen, no pušten je uz jamčevinu. Dodala je i da je mnogi ne podržavaju, već je okrivljuju za to što joj se dogodilo.

"Ne mogu vjerovati da se netko tko je već bio silovan i tko provodi kampanju protiv silovanja dovodi u ovakvu situaciju", komentirali su neki. 

 

Since I got raped last month, I've been spending more time naked in public with strangers. (Yes, you heard that right!) 💯 Not only do I enjoy the freedom I feel being nude in nature, but it's also to prove the point that nudity does not equate to sex or rape. I skinny dipped in a few waterfalls and swam naked at night in the Indian Ocean. I was with men & women from different backgrounds and ages and GUESS WHAT? I didn't get raped. 🙌 This proves the point that clothing/nudity do not cause rape, only rapists do!! The man who attacked me would have done so regardless. I didn't even take my clothes off to take the shower, he destroyed them leaving them bloodied. 🛁 So to answer the question "What kind of woman takes a shower with a guy who is not her boyfriend?" (Stop assuming I'm straight, btw.) The answer is I DO! I'm a liberated, body positive naturist. If I want to swim or shower with a stranger, that's exactly what I'll do! Most people are not rapists. Most people have self control. I'm not putting myself in "dangerous situations" I'm being the change I wish to see in the world: a world where women are safe and free to live how they please! By exposing the female body in a non-sexual way, we systematically desexualize it. So, I'm gonna keep rocking birthday suit which reminds me: My birthday is in 3 days!! 🎉 Photo by @nateynukez 🌸🍃🌸🍃🌸🍃🌸🍃🌸🍃🌸🍃🌸🍃🌸 #AmberAmour #AmberTheActivist #nature #nudism #model #modeling #feminism #feminist #yesallwomen #humanrights #freethefuckingnipple #girlswithdreads #CreatingConsentCulture #bodypositive #bodypositivity #effyourbeautystandards #birthdaysuit #girlpower #goddess #naturelovers #naturism #wildwoman #skinnydipping #freedom #StopRapeEducate

Fotografiju objavljuje Amber Amour (@ambertheactivist)

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