Sin pitao mamu zašto joj trbuh izgleda čudno, a ona mu dala odličan odgovor
ONAJ tko je prošao trudnoću, zna koliko je teško izgubiti nakupljene kilograme i vratiti tijelo u početno stanje. Važno je zapamtiti da treba voljeti svoje tijelo i prihvatiti ga takvim kakvo je.
Međutim, ovoj mami, koja je tek rodila blizance, stariji sin je najveći kritičar.
Zbunjen izgledom majčinog trbuha, trogodišnji sin Archer pitao je svoju mamu što nije u redu s njenim trbuhom.
Naime, ova mama ima trudničke strije i višak kože koji joj je nastao tijekom trudnoće s blizancima, a njezinom sinu nije jasno što se to dogodilo s maminim trbuhom.
If you've ever stood in front of the mirror picking apart your body, I'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever skipped a meal or two or three due to feelings of guilt, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever felt panicked or ashamed by the number on the scale, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever been unable to BELIEVE in the compliments you receive, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever passed on buying something cute because you felt you couldn't "pull it off", i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever taken an impromptu shower just so you could cry freely, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever felt shame for feeling so down when you know that you have loads to be grateful for, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever sabotaged a good thing because you didn't feel deserving, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever “let” one minor negative experience ruin your day, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever deleted a post on social media because it didn't get "enough" likes, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever relied on validation from others to make you feel confident and happy, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever felt like you don't quite qualify as an adult, let alone a mother, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever held yourself to an impossible standard, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever felt that your post performance on social media is tied to your personal happiness, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever compared yourself to someone else on social media and felt like you came up short, i'm sorry and i see you. If you've ever felt alone in a room full of people, i'm sorry and i see you. But remember this. A size is just a number. Food is not your enemy. Tears don't make you weak. Motherhood is f*cking hard. Social media is something to hold in your hand and not in your heart You are not alone. You don't DESERVE to feel this way. You're not broken. You're not lacking. You are good enough. You are GREAT enough. You just need to *remember* it.
"Jutros me Archer pitao što nije u redu s mojim trbuhom. Rekla sam mu da svaka beba ostavlja trag na mom trbuhu, tako da ni na sekundu ne zaboravim da su nastali unutra i da su sada tu", rekla je Hayley Garnett, sada majka troje djece.
"Ew put that away 🤮". "When I get pregnant I'll make sure I don't get stretchmarks". "Mom's will do anything for attention these days". Instead of getting angry with those that make these comments, I can't help but feel sad. I'm not going to pretend that I've never judged someone. I won't say i've never voiced these judgements to another. What I can say is that most of the judgements i've made about someone else, i've done so prematurely. Before I've lived what they've lived. Before I've EXPERIENCED. So to the man who told me to "put it away"--I'm here for you. Maybe one day an important woman in your life will birth a baby--the most beautiful baby. And maybe her postpartum journey will be bumpy--maybe she will have trouble celebrating her body's journey and the changes that came with it. Maybe then you'll see how powerful it is for a mama to share her truth. Maybe you'll even point her in my direction. To the girl who is convinced she won't get stretchmarks when she's pregnant - I'm here for you. When you try every product out there that claims to keep those marks away, yet they begin to weave across your belly, angry and red, spiking your anxiety each time you look down--I'm here for you. To the person who attempted to shame me for the attention i'm receiving after posting a photo- I'm here for you. One day when you find a cause that you're passionate about--one that might attract negative attention--I'm here for you. You'll soon realize the true "power" and impact that this attention can bring not only to an indivvidual but to a whole community. I'm not trying to make excuses for internet trolls or any of the truly hateful people in this world. I'm not saying that it's OKAY for them to say these things. I'm just saying that there's power in forgiveness. That there's always hope for reformation. For new "aha" moments. For changed perspectives. And when you find yourself in MY shoes, I'll be here for you.
Ispričala je da joj blizanačka trudnoća nije bila nimalo laka.
"Cijelo vrijeme sam bila na lijekovima za mučninu, a trbuh mi je rastao tako brzo da sam imala osjećaj da će se raspuknuti. Posljednji mjesec sam se teško kretala. Bojala sam se kako će moj sin reagirati na to da ćemo dobiti još dvoje djece kojima je potrebna naša pažnja jer smo do sada bili samo nas troje. I nisam bila sigurna kako ćemo si to sve moći priuštiti financijski. Zapravo, još uvijek nisam sigurna. Međutim, bili smo jako uzbuđeni i imamo veliku sreću što smo dobili ovako nevjerojatan dar, dvije prekrasne curice odjednom", ispričala je Hayley.
Njen sin se polako privikavao na to da je postao stariji brat, a sudeći prema fotografijama koje je objavljivala na Instagramu, odlično se snašao u novoj ulozi.